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Things people have said to me over the years have been a little hurtful. People have rubbed it into me about how big and noticeable I am, and that kind of makes me self concious, especially when it comes to approaching women. I have always asked other people (especially women in the professional front!) about how to approach them without having to worry about intimidating them. The way other people described it, it's like a football lineman approaching a petite lady. Any advice anyone can give me would be much appreciated. Thanks.